Cynthia Lu Stevens was my great-grand aunt. She was born 25 Feb 1877 and died 10 Jun 1964, at the age of 87 years old. She never married. I asked my first cousin 1x removed, Betty Whitehead Sweeny, via email to recall her memories of Aunt Cynnie. She stated “Aunt Cynnie and Pelly never married. They lived in the house in Sandy Cross together with Uncle Joe (Joe Augustus Stevens Sr), his wife, Aunt Rita (Rita Durden) and their only child, Joe Jr. (Joe Augustus Stevens, Jr)…The house was built either by great grandpa Augustus (Columbus Augustus “Gus” Stevens) or his father (Obediah Benjamin Stevens). It was located on a huge farm and some income came from the land….Aunt Cynnie did the shopping and drove a Chevy Coup.” Aunt Betty goes on to say that both Aunt Cynnie and Pelly attended “Finishing School” in Athens. Cynnie attended Brenau University located in Gainesville, Georgia.
Aunt Betty also recalled that “Joe and Rita lived upstairs in the front part of the house. Joe, Jr’s room was across the hall. Aunty Cynnie and Pellie lived downstairs in the back bedroom. They ate together, but sorta lived apart. There was a bathroom on both floors, located at the back of the house. The kitchen was huge and connected to the dining room by a ‘butler’s pantry.'”
Mary Lynn Stevens, my second cousin 1x removed remembers the following: “I do remember visiting them when I was a little, little girl; after “Gus” died, my grandfather Joe Sr. was head of household and the sisters lived with him. I remember them as very kind and very quiet. They seemed to be bedridden in a shared bedroom downstairs – all the other bedrooms were upstairs.”
Cynnie died in 1964, she is buried in the Stevens Family plot at Sandy Cross Cemetery, Oglethorpe County, Georgia.
I wish I could have known more about Cynnie and her sister. Why did they not marry? Why did they not live outside of the family home?